THIS POST IS WRITTEN BY KAU KOK YONG (:
How does one actually feel love?
Is it all tingly sensation, mushy phone calls through the night,
clinging hand in hand, being together no matter where he or she is,
or is it something more than that.
I'm not too sure.
Being a single and not getting into relationship before,
I've been noticing so many couples around me,
and can't say I'm not jealous.
Definitely don't you all think that it is so good and nice to have somebody there for you,
letting you feel loved.
It has been a fact that getting too involved in the relationship,
will result in you losing your friends.
Or the other way, your friends losing you.
I think it is a common phenomenon,
that most of us have experienced it before.
When you find it hard to even meet up you dear friend,
for a simple meal or going out.
Because of the reason they are meeting their dear Boyfriend,
or their dear Girlfriend to study.
I think this generation has revolved into a new mindset,
where is it now okay for students to have relationship,
or should I say is getting too common,
to not even don't even know anyone who is stead of
Friend A and Friend B is currently steadying with this guy or gal.
Nevertheless is a a topic that keep students nowadays gossiping about. LOL!
Sometimes you will feel rather pathetic and sad to know that,
you have no one to turn to when you are in the stake of depression,
when you need your dear friends,
yet they are again spending sweet times with their partners,
is like sort of telling you unknowingly that you are not loved by anyone.
Sometimes the strong sense of being forsaken
really engulfed and deteriorate one mind.
Trust me, it is kind of horrible feeling,
that you never wish to had, I am a victim once before.
Another form of love, might be that kind of friendship love,
you love your friends.
Looking back, calling someone and being someone friends
is never sort of that easy nor that kind of a blink of eyes,
we get so bonded, coming together may be a hell,
but going through everything and knowing that
we are there no matter for each others,
seeing each other cries and being so comfortable
about each other presence, this is what I mean Love.
Friendship is a special thing because
it is something that God gave us to chose.
It is a special privilege that we given as compare to
family background that we cannot chose them.
To me friendship are the most important relationship
I will regard as compare to any others.
How do look for when you break out with your stead,
and start all over ranting over the miserable stuffs to them,
but one thing I know that if he/she is your true friend of yours,
hearing your woe is to them something that
they never wish to don't bother,
but not to the extend of bugging them same old things again and again,
cannot blame them too if they chose to don't care about you,
because have you ever spare a thought of them when they need you.
However, friends are not that petty, because they care.
Your problems are always your friends top priority.
I dare not confirm, but well,
when you break out with your stead
you all will some how feel neglected your friends a lot,
and rather really apologetic,
because you all should know what it feels like and it sucks.
You will somehow missed out the goodness of friendship.
However saying so much about such great and lasting relationship,
however seldom do I see people blossoming in them.
Everyone have their own commitment and belief,
making everyone think differently, so far apart it seems.
I feel very uncertain on know who is that kinda of closest,
bestest friends of mine, everyone has their own weakness,
some might be close with you but not consider
treating you that well or friends that treat you well,
yet you are not close with them.
I really hope that I got the extra time to really cultivate and nurture my friendship,
because I am that sort of person that is not looking forward
in getting in any relationship, or should I say it will be a wonder if
I can even manage my friendship well and time for such things.
I missed so much of my old friendships,
is always good to invest in one,
than multiplying in it,
so what you have tons lots of friends,
does that mean you will be happy, well I doubt so....
I MISS MY FRIENDS SO MUCH, SORRY IF I HAD FORSAKEN YOU!!!
We might see each other everyday..
We might be going out everyday....
We might use to joke, laugh and play together...
We might talk all our lungs out....
we might start to talk lesser as days pass...
We might not talk one day....
We might not be seeing each other...
We might not be able to see each other smile one day...
We might lose each other in our sight...
We might not even be friends anymore one day...
We might be stranger on street one day walking pass one day...
No matter what if that day comes, I will feel super bad, blaming myself why don't I cherish it more!
Recent case as you all know, things are so unexpected,
who expected a cycle trip to end up like that,
have you imagine losing someone so important to you,
in just that moments, when you blame yourselves from head to top,
why such things happened,
telling yourselves that I should do this and that.
Human are like that, we say we want to treasure people presence,
but we never, until the very last moment we depart from each other,
it will be the time, we see each other importance and purpose in our life.
Sad to say Humans have this horrible habits...
END
Hahas (: I somehow feel what Koky is feeling right now.
But not 100% same as him la.
Just want to let my good friends know.
I WILL BE HERE FOR YOU.
whether you neglected me in the past or whatsoever.
I don't care, because I tried to understand your situation (:
And I support your decision (:
I love you my friends (:
And I agree with Koky's:
Love is commitment, not convenient (:
Anyway, I'm really happy with my life right now (:
And I don't need a boyfriend to make my life perfect.
Because I think my life is good for now (:
I have a goal in life, I try to achieve my dreams.
I have my
FAMILY!
PRAWNSOCIETY!
LAOPOs!
COUNCILLORS!
BAND MEMBERS (:
I want to be a strong woman! HAHA.
Like Koky, I won't feel jealous la,
just envy, when I see couples getting along so well,
receiving the love of each other.
But when I think twice,
I know there are people who love me too! (:
And I love them! (:
For now, I shall just concentrate with my current living situation.
And when I think I'm mature enough to LOVE,
I will persue it then (:
That would be like? 10years later?
LOL! FAKEFAKE!
[[Love is commitment, not convenient]]
How does one actually feel love?
Is it all tingly sensation, mushy phone calls through the night,
clinging hand in hand, being together no matter where he or she is,
or is it something more than that.
I'm not too sure.
Being a single and not getting into relationship before,
I've been noticing so many couples around me,
and can't say I'm not jealous.
Definitely don't you all think that it is so good and nice to have somebody there for you,
letting you feel loved.
It has been a fact that getting too involved in the relationship,
will result in you losing your friends.
Or the other way, your friends losing you.
I think it is a common phenomenon,
that most of us have experienced it before.
When you find it hard to even meet up you dear friend,
for a simple meal or going out.
Because of the reason they are meeting their dear Boyfriend,
or their dear Girlfriend to study.
I think this generation has revolved into a new mindset,
where is it now okay for students to have relationship,
or should I say is getting too common,
to not even don't even know anyone who is stead of
Friend A and Friend B is currently steadying with this guy or gal.
Nevertheless is a a topic that keep students nowadays gossiping about. LOL!
Sometimes you will feel rather pathetic and sad to know that,
you have no one to turn to when you are in the stake of depression,
when you need your dear friends,
yet they are again spending sweet times with their partners,
is like sort of telling you unknowingly that you are not loved by anyone.
Sometimes the strong sense of being forsaken
really engulfed and deteriorate one mind.
Trust me, it is kind of horrible feeling,
that you never wish to had, I am a victim once before.
Another form of love, might be that kind of friendship love,
you love your friends.
Looking back, calling someone and being someone friends
is never sort of that easy nor that kind of a blink of eyes,
we get so bonded, coming together may be a hell,
but going through everything and knowing that
we are there no matter for each others,
seeing each other cries and being so comfortable
about each other presence, this is what I mean Love.
Friendship is a special thing because
it is something that God gave us to chose.
It is a special privilege that we given as compare to
family background that we cannot chose them.
To me friendship are the most important relationship
I will regard as compare to any others.
How do look for when you break out with your stead,
and start all over ranting over the miserable stuffs to them,
but one thing I know that if he/she is your true friend of yours,
hearing your woe is to them something that
they never wish to don't bother,
but not to the extend of bugging them same old things again and again,
cannot blame them too if they chose to don't care about you,
because have you ever spare a thought of them when they need you.
However, friends are not that petty, because they care.
Your problems are always your friends top priority.
I dare not confirm, but well,
when you break out with your stead
you all will some how feel neglected your friends a lot,
and rather really apologetic,
because you all should know what it feels like and it sucks.
You will somehow missed out the goodness of friendship.
However saying so much about such great and lasting relationship,
however seldom do I see people blossoming in them.
Everyone have their own commitment and belief,
making everyone think differently, so far apart it seems.
I feel very uncertain on know who is that kinda of closest,
bestest friends of mine, everyone has their own weakness,
some might be close with you but not consider
treating you that well or friends that treat you well,
yet you are not close with them.
I really hope that I got the extra time to really cultivate and nurture my friendship,
because I am that sort of person that is not looking forward
in getting in any relationship, or should I say it will be a wonder if
I can even manage my friendship well and time for such things.
I missed so much of my old friendships,
is always good to invest in one,
than multiplying in it,
so what you have tons lots of friends,
does that mean you will be happy, well I doubt so....
I MISS MY FRIENDS SO MUCH, SORRY IF I HAD FORSAKEN YOU!!!
We might see each other everyday..
We might be going out everyday....
We might use to joke, laugh and play together...
We might talk all our lungs out....
we might start to talk lesser as days pass...
We might not talk one day....
We might not be seeing each other...
We might not be able to see each other smile one day...
We might lose each other in our sight...
We might not even be friends anymore one day...
We might be stranger on street one day walking pass one day...
No matter what if that day comes, I will feel super bad, blaming myself why don't I cherish it more!
Recent case as you all know, things are so unexpected,
who expected a cycle trip to end up like that,
have you imagine losing someone so important to you,
in just that moments, when you blame yourselves from head to top,
why such things happened,
telling yourselves that I should do this and that.
Human are like that, we say we want to treasure people presence,
but we never, until the very last moment we depart from each other,
it will be the time, we see each other importance and purpose in our life.
Sad to say Humans have this horrible habits...
END
Hahas (: I somehow feel what Koky is feeling right now.
But not 100% same as him la.
Just want to let my good friends know.
I WILL BE HERE FOR YOU.
whether you neglected me in the past or whatsoever.
I don't care, because I tried to understand your situation (:
And I support your decision (:
I love you my friends (:
And I agree with Koky's:
Love is commitment, not convenient (:
Anyway, I'm really happy with my life right now (:
And I don't need a boyfriend to make my life perfect.
Because I think my life is good for now (:
I have a goal in life, I try to achieve my dreams.
I have my
FAMILY!
PRAWNSOCIETY!
LAOPOs!
COUNCILLORS!
BAND MEMBERS (:
I want to be a strong woman! HAHA.
Like Koky, I won't feel jealous la,
just envy, when I see couples getting along so well,
receiving the love of each other.
But when I think twice,
I know there are people who love me too! (:
And I love them! (:
For now, I shall just concentrate with my current living situation.
And when I think I'm mature enough to LOVE,
I will persue it then (:
That would be like? 10years later?
LOL! FAKEFAKE!
[[Love is commitment, not convenient]]
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